You, Boy-Soul, Are God's Original Masterpiece (A Testimony)

Why this video moved me so much: A short testimony.

I started having same-sex sexual thoughts since I was 7 years old. It was a constant struggle into my teen years because the feelings were so strong, and yet I loved God so much. By age 19, I couldn't take it anymore. If I couldn't stop my homosexual thoughts, then I might as well die. I got severely depressed and I wanted to crawl into a small, dark hole and die in it. For weeks, I woke up every morning crying. Finally, I decided to end it all. But God intervened and brought me a couple of men who counseled me out of ending my life.

That year, I committed my life completely to Jesus, just like the guy in the video (start: 6 mins 55 sec). I considered that I had already died, and that the life I lived from that day onward was totally dedicated to Jesus. I didn't know if God would heal me from homosexuality, but I was willing to live a celibate life in service to Him. The same-sex struggle continued, even into marriage. Still I hung on to my commitment and never gave myself fully over to homosexuality.

Today, More than 20 years later, God has finally healed me of my homosexual desires. There is still some processing that needs to take place before I am more secure with my same-sex emotional attractions, but I know that the sexual attractions are gone.

I am healed. There is no longer any doubt in my mind about it.

Sometimes, it is only when you have reached the other side that you realize how hard it was to cross the river. While you were in the river itself, all you could do was focus on surviving. I had forgotten that I had been struggling for over three decades. I had allowed the struggle to define me: "I am a man who struggle with SSA."

But now, I am starting to see the emergence of God's original masterpiece: the original straight and manly me. So much chiseling has taken place over the years, and I finally see the original shape emerging. I praise Him for it.

I am glad I stayed with the pain. Now, looking from the other side, I can truly say that it was well worth it.

"Hello" To Other Christian SSA Bloggers

I've been spending my extra hours scouring through the blogosphere for Christians writing about their SSA struggles.

I never realized there were so many active blogs!

Although my search is far from exhaustive, I already have TEN bookmarks of Christian SSA bloggers that I will be visiting... in Blogger, Xanga, and Wordpress.  And it looks like these folks are spread around the world, not just in the U.S.  There is even a personal coach who has a specific outreach to people with SSA.

Incredible!

I have only been to one SSA support group, and my contact with people who struggle with SSA is extremely limited.  So, I hope to build up a network and gradually get to know people, for the purposes of mutual edification.

If I left a comment on your site and you're visiting, a warm "Hello!" to you.  Although I am anonymous, know that I am a pretty decent guy, a married man with kids, an educated professional, and you'd probably never suspect that I struggle with SSA if you met me in real life. (Yeah, we all say that don't we?)

I'm doing this revealing-myself thing slowly: one step at a time as the Spirit leads me.  If you follow my blog over time, you'll probably get to know A LOT more about me than most people will.  I intend to keep writing authentically here, for my own processing, and for the sake of others who are looking for healing.

Do feel free to drop me a comment.  I'd be glad to get to know you.

- TCM