Sunday, April 26, 2009

Sexual Intimacy Over The Phone

Brother A suggested that being sexual with one's wife over the phone is a good thing. He added that for him, it is a way to connect with his wife.

It was awkward at first. We'd never done anything like that before.

In the end, it worked out.

And it was sweet.

Very sweet.

Not the same as solo masturbation at all.

Not even close.

It's all in the connecting.


Brother A comes through again.

His love for me deepens my love for my wife.


  1. Hahaha...I'm not alone. My wife and I did that for the first time around a year and a half ago...but we used txting (or I believe it's now called sxtxting). It was cheaper that way since we were in different countries. It felt a bit awkward but not shameful. I want to try through words at some point...nothing is as good as her touch, but connecting and releasing in any health way is much better than returning to vomit.

  2. I am finding it to be incredibly bonding. I'm now thinking many new things about sex with my wife in light of the new me that is emerging.